Reaching out for help when you are in an abusive situation takes real courage. At Painters Law LLP, our domestic abuse solicitors in Kidderminster and Stourport are here to listen without judgement, explain your options clearly, and take swift legal action to help keep you safe. We work at your pace, and everything you share with us stays completely confidential.
Legal aid may be available for domestic abuse cases. Call us today for a private, no-pressure conversation.
A lot of people we speak to are not sure whether what they are experiencing counts as abuse, especially when there has been no physical violence. The truth is, domestic abuse takes many forms. Under the Domestic Abuse Act 2021, it covers any pattern of behaviour by a partner, ex-partner or family member that causes you physical, emotional, financial, sexual or psychological harm. Controlling and coercive behaviour, the kind that leaves you feeling like you are walking on eggshells, has been a criminal offence in England and Wales since 2015.
You do not need a bruise to have a case. Here is what domestic abuse can look like:
Physical Abuse: Any use of physical force against you, whether that is hitting, pushing, restraining or something else entirely.
Emotional and Psychological Abuse: Being constantly put down, threatened, manipulated or made to feel like you cannot trust your own instincts. This kind of abuse can be just as damaging as anything physical, and it is just as serious in the eyes of the law.
Coercive Control: If someone is monitoring your movements, cutting you off from the people you care about, controlling what you wear, or using fear to shape your day-to-day life, that is coercive control. Many people live with this for years before realising it has a name.
Financial Abuse: Being kept short of money, stopped from working, having debt run up in your name, or having no access to your own finances. Financial control is one of the most common ways abusers keep people trapped.
Sexual Abuse: Being pressured or forced into sexual activity without your consent, regardless of your relationship with that person.
If any of this sounds familiar, please do reach out. You are not overreacting, and you are not alone.
Once you speak to our domestic abuse solicitors, we can move quickly. There are several forms of legal protection available under UK law, and our team will talk you through which ones make sense for your situation.
This is a court order that legally stops your abuser from contacting, threatening or harassing you. Breaking the order is a criminal offence and can lead to immediate arrest. We can apply for one quickly, and in urgent cases, we can do so without your abuser knowing anything about it until the order is already in place.
If you share a home with your abuser, an Occupation Order can require them to leave and stay away. This means you and any children do not have to be the ones to go. It gives you breathing room to figure out next steps without uprooting your life in a crisis.
After criminal proceedings, or in some cases separately, the court can put a Restraining Order in place to stop an abuser from coming near your home, your workplace or anywhere else you need to feel safe.
When the situation is urgent, we can apply for emergency legal protection the same day, without the other party being notified in advance. We know that time matters in these situations, and our team is ready to act fast.
Our family law team in Kidderminster and Stourport has spent years helping people in situations just like yours. We know how much it takes to make that first call, and we will do everything we can to make the process feel manageable rather than overwhelming.
Depending on your circumstances, we can help you with:
Nothing you tell us goes any further without your say-so. We are on your side.
If you are in immediate danger, call 999. When it is safe to do so, these are the steps that can help:
1. Reach out for legal advice: You do not need to have made any decisions or know exactly what you want to do. Just call us and we will talk it through with you, confidentially, with no pressure.
2. Keep records where it is safe to do so: If you can do so without putting yourself at risk, keeping a note of incidents, saving screenshots of messages, or photographing any injuries can make a real difference to your case further down the line.
3. Think about where you are safest: We can help you work out whether staying in the home with legal protection in place, applying for an Occupation Order, or moving somewhere safe is the right approach for your situation.
4. Consider your finances: If your abuser controls the money, we can advise on practical steps to protect your finances and, where needed, access emergency funds.
When there are children involved, protecting them sits alongside protecting yourself. Our family lawyers regularly help clients with:
Children need stability and safety. We will help you fight for both.
Worrying about the cost of legal support should not stop you from getting the help you need. Legal aid may be available if you are a victim of domestic abuse and meet the financial eligibility criteria. Supporting evidence, such as a police report, medical records or an existing Non-Molestation Order, can strengthen your application.
Our team will talk you through whether you are likely to qualify and help you navigate the process. Cost should never be the thing that keeps someone in an unsafe situation.
You do not need to have all the answers before you pick up the phone. Whether you are ready to take action straight away or you just want to understand where you stand, our team is here to help you work it out.
Call our Kidderminster office on 01562 822 295 or our Stourport office on 01299 822 033. If you would prefer, you can fill in our online contact form and someone from our family law team will be in touch at a time that suits you.
You deserve to feel safe. Let us help you get there.
Domestic abuse includes physical, emotional, and financial abuse. We offer legal support for victims seeking protection.